在印度当众接吻是什么体验

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评论原创翻译：

What is it like to kiss in public in India?

在印度当众接吻是什么体验

Aman Singh, White-Collar Professional

Answered November 26, 2018 · Upvoted by Shubhrata Yadav, lives in India (2002-present) and Sona, lived in India (1991-2014)

I looked into her eyes, she smiled and we kissed

It was the last day of college. She had already booked her flight back to Bangalore and I knew it was the last time I would see her.

Year - 2013, Friday Evening

We boarded the metro, our friends got down at the respective stations. Now it was only me and her.

We reached Rajiv Chowk.

The station was crowded as usual. And we spoke for the last time.

She - So whats your plan ?

Me - I don’t know. I’ll take on my first job from next month. So you’re leaving tomorrow ?

She - Yes. You wanna come ? (wink)

Me - I wish, but Bangalore is far, far away.

She - I’ll miss you.

Me - Sure you will. I’ll miss you too.

She held my hand and said with a lower voice, “Good bye”.

She moved closer to me, I placed my hands firmly on her cheeks and guided her face towards mine.

I was looking into her eyes. She placed her one hand on my shoulder and the other one on my waist.

We went for the kiss.

我看着她的眼睛，她微笑着，我们亲吻了

那是大学的最后一天。她已经订好了回班加罗尔的机票，我知道这是我最后一次见到她。

那是2013年，一个星期五的晚上

我们上了地铁，朋友们在各自的车站了下车，现在只有我和她了。

我们到达了Rajiv Chowk。

车站像往常一样拥挤，那是我们最后一次说话。

她：你有什么计划呢

我：我也不知道，从下个月起我将开始我的第一份工作，你明天就要走了么？

她：是的，你想跟着我去吗？（眨眼）

我：我也想，但是班加罗尔太远了。

她：我会想你的。

我：我相信你会的，我也会想你的。

她握着我的手，低声说：“再见”。

她靠近我，我把我的手紧紧地放在她的脸颊上，将她的脸转向我的脸。

我看着她的眼睛，她一只手放在我肩上，另一只手放在我腰上。

我们吻上了。

原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.com 翻译：根就是韭菜就是根 转载请注明出处

I was kissing her, I could hear her breathing, I could sense the increase in her heartbeat. The passion, the misunderstandings and all the craziness of 3 years just in that one 

moment.

I held her arm and hugged her. Giving her a sense of confidence that we could be together. Eyes still closed. Its been a couple of minute that we were in this position.

As I gazed, I realise how beautiful she is. The innocence on her face and her trust on me said a lot.

The moment we turned around, we see - stares. A lot of stares.

Damn! The moment was ruined within seconds.

我吻着她，我能听到她的呼吸，也能感觉到她心跳在加快。三年的疯狂、误解和激情全都倾注在那一刻。

我挽住她的胳膊并抱住了她，这给她一种我们可以在一起的信心。我们的眼睛还闭着，保持在这个姿势已经有几分钟了。

当我凝视时着她时，我意识到她是多么的美丽，她脸上的天真和对我的信任、仿佛会说话。

当我们转过身来，我们看到 -- 凝视，很多人在盯着我们看。

The security guard was staring at us

Old citizens were giving us pathetic looks

Few young boys commented “get a room perverts”

While few hooted

Some clicked pictures

Man, it was embarassing.

I gave them a serious look instead of feeling guilty and hiding face. I held her hand and walked her towards the metro.

She was embarassed too. I accompanied her till her destination just to make sure no one is following her.

We laughed it off on the way. Later I bid her goodbye.

Next day I called her and hear “the number you have dialled, does not exist”.

We never spoke again after that day.

Answered - “What is it like to kiss in public in India?”

It feels like you are suddenly surrounded by highend human CCTV cameras

It seems that the world stopped for a moment. No, literally everybody stops to see you kissing

You will be called by pathetic names

And you will be taught morals within few minutes

Adios!

Image courtesy - google

Edit - Yes she blocked my number. Just few misunderstandings and we knew it was never going to workout between us and we never forced things. It was a mutual decision.

保安也在盯着我们看

老年人则表现出一种可悲的表情

有几个男孩评论道：就不知道找个房间么，死变态

发出尖叫声的倒是很少

参见上面的图片

小伙伴们，我真的很尴尬。

我严肃地看了他们一眼，而不是捂着脸心怀内疚。我拉着她的手，陪她走向地铁。

她也很尴尬，我一直陪她走到了目的地，只是为了确保没有人跟踪她。

我们在路上一笑而过，后来我向她道别了。

第二天我打了个电话给她，电话里传来一句“你拨的号码不存在”。

那天之后我们再也没说过话了。

在印度当众接吻是什么体验？

那种感觉，就像 -- 你突然被高端人力闭路电视摄像机包围了

整个世界似乎停了一会儿。不对，是每个人都停会下来看你接吻

你会被人各种鄙夷

几分钟内，人们就会教你道德

再见！

图片来源 -- 谷歌

编辑一下：是的，她拉黑了我的号码。我们有一些误解，我们知道我们之间永远不可能，我们也从来没有强迫过对方，这是双方的决定。

原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.com 翻译：根就是韭菜就是根 转载请注明出处

On the evening before the wedding is when we have reception in most of Tamil weddings. So, we were standing in the queue to wish the bride and then, my friend X got all 

emotional looking at her on stage and gave her a hug on stage. Following him, another guy also hugged her. But, it was more of a spontaneous reaction, seeing her on stage. For 

most of you, this might not seem like a big thing but it actually is, in certain places, this might even stop the wedding (very rarely).

I started laughing and then my friend, the bride, looked at me and was like, “Saranya, for God sake, please hug me and go!”. I gave her a hug and left the stage.

Throughout the evening, aunties and uncles and grannies and grandpas were pointing fingers at my poor friend. He didn’t really understand if he did something so wrong. The 

brides’ cousins came to us and were like, “Boss, were you that guy who did it?” As if he killed someone, lol.

The next day, in the wedding also, everyone kept staring at us. It was so funny.

So, forget kissing, even “hugging tight” will get you stares, if you’re in a village or town here. In cities like Chennai and Hyderabad, hugging won’t matter much, but 

kissing in public will definitely get you countless stares.

在婚礼的前一天晚上，泰米尔的大多数婚礼上都会举行招待会。所以，我们排着队向新娘许愿，然后，我的朋友X君在台上看到新娘，激动地给了她一个拥抱。X君之后、另一个男人也拥抱了新娘。但是

，这更多的是一种看到新娘在台上之后的自然反应。对你们大多数人来说，这似乎不是什么大事，但事实上，在某些地方，这甚至可能会毁掉一场婚礼（非常罕见）。

我开始大笑，然后我的新娘朋友看着我说：“Saranya，看在上帝的份上，请拥抱我然后离开！”. 我给了她一个拥抱，然后离开了舞台。

然后整个晚上，阿姨们、叔叔们、奶奶们爷爷们都对我那可怜的朋友指指点点。他真的不明白他是不是做错了什么，新娘的堂兄弟来找我们，说：“小贼，是你干的吗？”好像我那朋友杀了人似的。

第二天，在婚礼上，每个人都在盯着我们看，太好笑了。

所以，接吻就不要想太多了，如果你在印度的一个村庄或城镇里，即使是“抱一抱”你也会被人盯着。在金奈和海得拉巴这样的城市里，拥抱没多大事，但在公共场合接吻肯定会让你被无数的目光盯着

。

According to section 294 of Indian Penal Code, “causing annoyance to others through obscene acts is a criminal offence with a punishment of imprisonment up to 3 months or a 

fine, or both”.

There’s no definition as to what “obscene” means here and so it’s often misused. When Richard Gere kissed Shilpa Shetty during an event publicly in Delhi, the Indian court 

issued an arrest warrant for him, in 2007.

Although, things have changed since then, it’ll take decades for this to be taken easily in India.

根据《印度刑法》第294条，“通过淫秽行为、给他人造成烦恼是一种刑事犯罪，可处以3个月以下监禁或罚款，或两者俱罚”。

但印度并没有对于“淫秽”的确切定义，所以经常会被误用。2007年，当Richard Gere在德里的一次公开活动中亲吻Shilpa Shetty时，印度法院对他发出了逮捕令。（译注：这二人都是演员）

尽管从那时起情况发生了变化，但要想在印度轻松地做到这一点，还需要几十年的时间。

原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.com 翻译：根就是韭菜就是根 转载请注明出处

Ritika Agarwal, studied at Indian Institutes of Technology (2018)

Answered September 13, 2018

Pretty normal.

I have been an active spectator of public kissing ranging from mild to wild, credits to having lived in a college campus for four years where kissing in public happened as 

subtly as holding hands!

Will you believe me if I said that the designated spot for makin-out in my campus was a parking lot right opposite to the administrative building! Yes, the building from which 

an entire institution of 7.5K students is controlled, witnesses both sexual and emotional splurge routinely from 6–9 in the evening, every single day of the week.

And yes, guess what? The parking lot, yeah? It is meant for professors and administration’s staff to park their vehicles.

There is also a pretty busy narrow road which passes in between the parking lot and the admin building and is parallel to both of them. Students take this road very frequently 

to commute to and fro from their hostels.

If you are new to the campus and are taking that road for the first time, you seem to observe the various silhouettes in dark in the parking lot. That scene in the dark might 

seem quite unnatural to you, for you have come from the outside non-campus world that stringently looks down upon any form of PDA.

But after taking the road for a couple of more times, you simply don’t observe any differently or assign any special importance to the parking lot. It becomes just so normal 

and mundane.

You start treating the entire scenario just like any other element of nature in the background.

Hey! Wait a second! Isn’t that what kissing is meant to be? Isn’t it just a part of our natural selves, a way of nature and largely nature itself!

Payel Das, An Indian surviving currently on German soil

Answered Jan 18

I was in my second year of college then. I had just started a new relationship. You know right, the excitement level is at its peak in the initial phase of a relationship! I was 

always on cloud 9.

My then boyfriend stayed 3 stations away from mine and often we used to travel back home together. Once our classes ended earlier than usual, and he asked if he could accompany 

me to my station. I was in the phase where I believed love happens like the one shown in Bollywood movies. I was excited.

We hopped on the crowded train and were giggling. We hadn’t done anything, not even held hands, but I could see the judgemental stares around. And guess who was giving those: 

middle aged married women (mostly)!

At a certain point, I started to get very uncomfortable and told him about it. He said ‘let’s give them more reason’, and kissed me on my cheeks.

Before I could realise what he said and did, the show was already over. I was surprised and confused. I didn’t know how to react. I liked it, of course. But it was so sudden 

and short lived that I went numb for a few seconds.

My stop came and we both got down along with dozen other people. I could hear fleeting sounds from a couple of those women, ‘Aj kalker meyera koto nirlojjo’. (Women these days 

are so shameless). I was stunned. They specifically pointed a finger at me, the female!

He asked me to ignore them but the words kept ringing in my ears for a significant period of time.

Do you see what I am trying to say here?

Kissing in public in India makes the woman look bad specifically, the men usually are not questioned enough. She is judged more extensively, her character slut shamed quite 

often and if that’s not enough, even her family is character-shamed for this. IT IS JUST A SIMPLE KISS.

I was surprised people had so much free time to comment on random strangers in public. Why can’t you just let go?

I am not the rebel kind unlike my then boyfriend specifically for these kinds of bizarre reasons. I don’t appreciate my family being blamed on my behalf for these unwritten, 

so-called societal norms that one has to abide by. It is pitiful and saddening enough in the first place anyway.

I don’t see what is so wrong with just kissing in the public. Yes, we can get a room. But it is just a kiss, we are not engaging in full blown sex. How on earth does it make 

you uncomfortable?

I don’t think I will ever know.

那那时候我读大学二年级，我刚开始一段新的恋情。你知道吗，在一段感情的最初阶段，兴奋程度是最高的！我感觉自己一直在天上的感觉。

我当时的男朋友住在离我3站远的地方，我们经常一起回家。有一次我们的课比往常提早结束了，他问可不可以陪我去车站，当时我认为爱情就像宝莱坞电影里一样。我很兴奋，

我们跳上拥挤的火车，咯咯地笑。我们什么也没做，甚至连手都没牵过，但我能看到周围的批判目光。猜猜这些目光是谁投来的：中年已婚妇女（大部分）！

在某个时候，我开始感到很不舒服，并告诉他这件事。他说“给他们更多这样盯着我们的理由”，然后他吻了我的脸颊。

在我意识到他说了什么、做了什么之前，表演已经结束了。我感到惊讶和困惑，我不知道该怎么反应。我当然喜欢了，但它是如此突然和短暂，我愣了几秒钟。

接着我到站了，我们和其他十几个人一起下了车。我能听到其中几个女人转瞬即逝的声音，“Aj kalker meyera koto nirlojjo”。（现在的女人真是无耻）。我惊呆了，他们还特别用手指着我 -- 就

是那个女人！

他让我不要理他们，但这些话在我耳边响了很长一段时间。

你们明白我在说什么吗？

在印度，当众接吻会让女性看起来尤其糟糕，而男性通常不会受到多少质疑。女性会受到更广泛的批评，女性的人格经常会受到羞辱，如果这还不够的话，甚至女人的家庭也会因此感到羞愧，仅仅只是

接了个吻而已。

我很惊讶、人们为什么会有这么多的空闲时间、在公共场合评论随机的陌生人，你们为什么就不能随它去呢？

我不是那种叛逆的人、不像我当时的男友，特别不会因为奇怪的原因而叛逆。我也不想我的家庭因为我受到指责（因为一些不成文的、所谓的社会准则）。不管怎么说，从一开始这就够可怜和悲哀的了

。

我不明白，在公共场合接吻有什么不对。是的，我们可以订一个房间。但这只是一个吻呀，我们并没有进行全面的性行为，到底是什么、让你感觉不舒服的？

我想我永远都不会知道。