游学哈佛，被欧美学生的中国历史观惊到了

My one close(not too close actually) white American female friend is
one that is very interested in Chinese language and culture, though she
is by no means the mainstream American.Now let’s get into more detail. I
used to hang out with a group of Americans boys. They were nice and
friendly, yet I always felt I was not part of their circle. I kept
wondering why and one day I found the reason.That group of friends had
their own inner group on social media. They would share interesting
stories, experiences from life or just generally socialize on there. I
was not part of that and naturally my friendship with them was not very
deep. I was never invited either, even though I’ve known them for a
year. It felt like I was an outsider, an accessory almost. Kind of like
they are their own crime family and I’m an associate. But at least they
were friendly and I could enjoy some “beer and meat” time with them, or
in Chinese 酒肉朋友。American females what can I say? I might as well be
invisible to them. I somehow because friends with a French girl who was
an exchange student. The other friend was interested in Chinese culture
like mentioned earlier.I know there is an American bar culture where
people make friends, but it is not something you can get into without a
friend telling you about the ins and outs. It’s like an white American
suffering at a traditional Chinese dinner table, except most Chinese
people are willing to give the foreigner some leeway. And to be honest,
this part of culture is not friendly to Asians males.